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It satisfied both of our needs without the pressure of a relationship.
But soon, he got abusive, saying he wanted nothing to do with me sober and then asking to have drunken sex. I think that friends-with-benefits can work, but you have to treat each other like friends.
– Hans*I’ll do the hook-up thing for a while, get tired of it, get a girlfriend, get tired of being a relationship, and then do the hook-up thing again.
– Mark*Friends With Benefits I think dating still exists to a degree in college, but it's intermingled with the hook-up culture.
Don't lie to one another about relationship-y things.
No feelings — if someone gets feelings, we need to either end things or both need to take a step back and reevaluate.
Their answers span the entire relationship spectrum, proving that attitudes towards college relationships are diverse and changing. Everyone at college is afraid of losing touch after graduation, so taking a chance on keeping someone around in a serious way is scary.
But now that I have a boyfriend, all I want is to hook up with other people.
– Anita*I came in with a girlfriend freshman year, which I ended up regretting.
I do have some anxiety about it though, because it’s been almost two years and he hasn’t said, “I love you.” – Isabella*I prefer dating to hooking up because of the level of comfort and support you receive from being exclusive.
–Stacie*I love having a cheerleader, someone always rooting for me, being there for me through a long and stressful week, and I love being that for someone in return.